More is not enough
Less is not lack
Category: Short Form
3 Levels of Tension
Low tension
Creative tension
Destructive tension
is where tension ha sustained
Age
As we age
we may realize
that what we once considered
“old“
is “young”,
while what we once considered
“young”
is younger.
Lowering Expectation vs Discovering Value
They say
the key to happiness
is lowering
expectations.
Choosing to let go
of what we wish
to see.
Perhaps
sometimes.
But at others times
we can also experience happiness
by discovering
or creating value
through respecting.
By learning the choice
to see what is already there
in a new way.
from what we took for granted,
what we once assumed
too mundane
or worthless
Asking for Advice
Sometimes,
we need to ask for advice
on how to solve
our problems.
Before asking,
it may be worth getting clear on:
- What the current situation is,
- Where you’re trying to move to,
- What you believe are required
to make such a move, - What you’ve already done
to fulfill those requirements,
and having done them, - What you see
are the remaining problems.
Deadline
What I learned in art
is that the work gets done
because there’s an exhibition.
Without an exhibition
the artist can work on their piece
until they’re perfect.
Except
compared to perfection
the work
is never be enough.
The role of an exhibition
is to force us to define
what is “good enough.”
Coaching
The purpose of coaching
is to help you
win.
Its not
to heal.
Nor is It
to change.
If healing is necessary
to win
then so be it.
If change is necessary
to win
then so be it.
But those are only means
to an end.
No matter what I try
The phrase
“No matter what I try”
is a great way to
as if we have taken responsibility
whil
Easy to Say
It’s easy to tell others
“be humble.”
Until you experience a moment,
when it feels as if “being humble”
will bring about
your own demise.
It’s easy to tell others
“listen.”
Until you experience a moment,
when you feel so unheard
that you want the other person to listen
first.
It’s easy to tell others
“appreciate.”
Until you experience a moment,
when what you appreciate
is not what they want to feel appreciated
for.
Amplification of Judgment
One
of the easiest ways
to get social media engagement
is to judge people.
Judge our boss, toxic,
the post shall go viral fulfilling t
Judge our subordinates, lazy.
Judge our country hell.
Is this the world
we want to pass down
to our children?