We tend to expect others
to know what they are doing “wrong” to you
then fix it
by themselves.
Sometimes
this expectation
is fulfilled.
Many times,
what you consider “wrong”
is not
from their perspective
especially not
to the same degree.
And even if it is
to fix it by themselves
not only leaves them isolated,
naturally,
but also to do something that doesnt
come naturally.
Be willing to support them
to change the context