I wouldn’t have

“if I were them,
I wouldn’t have done that”

The focus
lies on the behavior.

Behaviors
are mere symptoms
of our intention to
fulfill our needs
or to realize our values
as directed.

The question is whether we would behave differently
had we the same intentions, needs, and values.

Deadline

What I learned in art
is that the work gets done
because there’s an exhibition.

Without an exhibition
the artist can work on their piece
until they’re perfect.

Except
compared to perfection
the work
is never be enough.

The role of an exhibition
is to force us to define
what is “enough.”

To Lose

Its easy to judge
losing
as “bad.”

As long as we love someone
or something
we will eventually
lose them.

The only way not to lose
is to never
love.

What we often forget
is that while we love
because we have yet to lose
we dont
appreciate.

And only appreciate
after we have lost.

Delegation

When we delegate
we think
we are delegating
our tasks.

But we are also delegating
our values.

What we consider important.
How we make decisions.
How we prioritize.

Delegating mere tasks
without values
may end
with you blurting out
the good ol’ saying
If you want something done right,
do it
yourself.

VUCA + ALOS

When there is
volatility,
there is likely to be
anxiety.

When there is
uncertainty,
there is likely to be
loneliness.

When there is
complexity,
there is likely to be
overwhelm.

When there is
ambiguity,
there is likely to be
shame.

Winning

For some reason,
“winning“
has become a dirty word
in business.

Perhaps what’s needed
is a clear discernment
between winning
a zero sum game,
vs playing our own game,
where “winning“
is not defined
as zero sum.