Sometimes
we think what others want from us
is to sacrifice
for them.
When, in fact,
what they may actually want from us
is what is best
for us.
What if Irony is Judging Others for Lacking Empathy?
Sometimes
we think what others want from us
is to sacrifice
for them.
When, in fact,
what they may actually want from us
is what is best
for us.
You choose an option
when you feel
like you have no other choice.
This is either or.
You make a choice,
when creativity strikes and a choice
you didn’t know existed
or you had becomes visible.
This is both
or neither.
p.s: My gratitude goes out to Bill Guschwan, who has inspired this post with some of the most amazing discussions I’ve been able to have around philosophy in his company.
What cold outreach taught me
was that what people are doing
is not rejecting me.
What they are doing
is saying things to me.
It is I who choose
to interpret their words
as rejection
or as something else.
It may be
that when we admit our fear
of death,
we value our loved ones
so much more
than the perception of others
that we decide to do things
without caring too much
what others think.
https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20160208-why-contemplating-death-changes-how-you-think
One way to notice
that we’re genuinely
innovating
is to notice
that we don’t know
what we’re doing.
If we know
what we’re doing
we’re probably just
following the steps
of manufacturing.
Sometimes
curiosity
contains
judgment.
When we remove such judgment
what we are left with
is pure
wonder.
May you stay
wonderful.
Development
has a
grain
as do
a piece
of wood.
Trying to change someone
may go against
their developmental
grain.
When we delegate
we think
we are delegating
our tasks.
But we are also delegating
our values.
What we consider important.
How we make decisions.
How we prioritize.
Delegating mere tasks
without values
may end with you blurting out
the good ol’ saying:
“If you want something done right,
do it
yourself.”
Sometimes
we hear people say
“But I cannot simply choose
to be some way!”
Indeed.
Making a choice
does not mean change
is necessarily
imminent.
It merely signifies
the first step
of a journey.
But a journey
with a commitment.
A journey
with intention.
A journey
that starts by us taking
responsibility.
Our experiences
are real
and valid.
Our perspectives
are real
and valid.
Our perceptions
are real
and valid.
But none of them
are the whole.