Beyond Compassion

Sometimes,
it’s not easy to go beyond
compassion.

To accept the challenge
of putting aside our own emotions
of concern.

To lessen our focus
on our good intentions
of wanting to alleviate someone’s suffering
or enhancing their well-being.

Maybe even to suspend
our indignance
and resentment.

So as to make room
for a sense of wonder.

To enhance our focus
on revising our expressions
for greater impact.

Connecting
and staying present with their emotions,
even if we may not like
or want to feel
those emotions.

Easy to Say

It’s easy to tell others
“be humble.”

Until you experience a moment,
when it feels as if “being humble”
will bring about
your own demise.

It’s easy to tell others
“listen.”

Until you experience a moment,
when you feel so unheard
that you want the other person to listen
first.

It’s easy to tell others
“appreciate.”

Until you experience a moment,
when what you appreciate
is not what they want to feel appreciated
for.

Disagreements

When disagreeing
it may be important to recognize
that we need not take responsibility
for someone else’s choice.

If the disagreement is because we feel like well have to take responsibility
for someone elses choice,
then make that clear,
I choose to support you on your decision
provided you make clear that you will take responsibility
for the consequences.

Beauty

It is easy
to judge beauty
as lacking
function.

Unaware
of how his behavior changes
when faced
with beauty.

Just because the function isn’t clear

doesn’t mean it doesn’t matter

it just means, it’s versatile