Advice from Pain

When we give someone
advice
then find ourselves feeling
frustrated
or angry
for not following
our advice
ponder the possibility
that we have yet to recover
from a pain we incurred
in our past
and projecting ourselves
on to others.

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In our sixth episode of the season, we host Imran Syed, Founder-CEO of HatchProof.

Prior to Founding Hatchproof, Imran was the CEO of Instapage,
There, he witnessed the Founder losing control, which left an impression on him.
In this episode, we explore his inquiry into how he can manage his fear of losing control in the same way.

Irony

I lack empathy.
Sometimes.

We all lack empathy.
Sometimes.

Let those
who’s never lacked empathy,
judge others
for lacking empathy.

Let those
who’s never seen others lack empathy,
judge themselves
for lacking empathy.

Complaining

It’s ok
to complain.

In fact,
it can be healthy.

Except,
complain to someone
with skills.

The skills to summarize your complaint
far more succinctly
than you could
alone.

The skills to organize your complaint
far more clearly
than you could
alone.

The skills to guide your complaint
toward a resolution
you couldn’t reach
alone.

May we neither waste our complaint
on people who lack
such skills.

Nor leave such people frustrated
for lacking
such skills.