Being vs Having

Sometimes
we speak
as if we are
others.

“I am sad”
vs
“I am feeling sadness”

“I am a CEO”
vs
“I play the role of a CEO”

“I am fit”
vs
“I have a fit body”

Perhaps we speak this way
out of habit.

Perhaps we speak this way
when we hyper-empathize.

No matter the reason,
it’s worth creating
distinctions
and boundaries with them,
so we can empathize.

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