Solidarity vs Attack & Defense

There is strength together
and strength against
when you communicate in a way
that provokes defense in the other
despite your best intentions
that will be strength against
which backfires
when you use strength together
to inspire solidarity
that does something radically different

We tend to think
we have to show our strength
to lead

Sometimes

What’s more clear
is that the more we show our strength
the less other people imagine
that we’re human.

That we can be vulnerable

And the less we seem human
less they see us as one of them.

Leading

When we use the word
lead
let us be clear
what it is
we are leading.

If we are leading
people.

Then let us be explicit
that what we mean by
lead
Is leading
people.

Not money.

Not decisions.

Not strategies.

People.

Yes,
we need
money
decisions
strategies
to lead
people.

But those are the means
not the end.

May we remebmer that.